Thursday, 16 April 2015

"THE FEAR OF FAILURE"

You are here right now at this moment because tomorrow you wanna be somebody greater than the person you are today. You see yourself succeeding. You have a vision... you have a dream...
Congratulation’s
You're already 10 steps ahead of 95% of the world. So I wanna share one thing with you. It's gonna move you closer to your dreams... But before I begin... I wanna explain the biggest myth that most people think leads them to success... & here's the myth.
You might believe... if you’re scared to fail, you won't fail. “LIES! “ Biggest myth ever… and I believed it. You see, I always thought that being scared to fail in life would literally keep me from failing.
I would look at the losers around me and I would say… ”shessh, I never wanna turn out like him.” I really believed this train of thought would help me succeed until one day. I was walking down the street and I saw an old man. Had a hat, suspenders… and a cane. Was about 80 years old. This old man was barely walking. He could walk but the cane help a lot. He was struggling. So anyway, he was walking across the street and he ended up falling. So, I went over to go help him… and he gets up, says thank you and we introduce ourselves. Had a little conversation. Told me his name and I told mine. His name was Robert by the way and right as he walked away I told him this is what I said.
“ROBERT, you should stay inside where it’s safe my friend”…and Robert turns around and says to me “I love walking... and l love walking way more than I’m afraid of falling”. So I ask him “well... what about your safety? Don’t you wanna live?”...and he told me this, these are the exact words he said, he said this. “TJ, living means doing what you love to do”. ”and if I have to fall here and there to do what I wanna do in life... then so be it”. And he just walked away, never see him again, that was it... but that statement really had me thinking and it had me thinking hard because, I learned something that day. That’s when I realized the true key to success. You see, I always thought if I could just fear the act of failing and if I fear it like crazy... I will succeed, because I thought the fear would magically motivate me to get out there and start taking action but after that day?  I realized something, I realized it’s the love for success that will lead me to succeeding.
So just imagine if Robert fared of failing would he even start walking? Of course not! He wouldn’t even do what he loved to do. He would sit at home and take no type of action...but he loved walking. Wasn’t even scare to fall… it gave him life. That’s what allowed him to get up and do it. He loved walking so much he was willing to fall ten times a just to do it… AND YOU HAVE TO BE THE SAME!
You have to love success just as much because that’s what’s gonna allow you to get up and go for it! Being scared to fail won’t do ANYTHING!
In fact...
When you success and you start going for it...guess what happens? You’re gonna fail! You’re gonna fail ten times! A hundred times! MAYBE EVEN A THOUSAND TIMES! But that’s okay. Failure isn’t permanent. You get back up and keep going! And this time, you’re gonna be stronger, wiser… and you’ll be more driven than ever! And for every ten failures, you’ll land one success.
You have to love success so much that you’re willing to fail ten times before you can succeed once.
THAT’S HOW A WINNER DOES IT!
Imagine if Michal Jordan was scared of missing… he would’ve never taken the shot! Imagine if STEVE JOBS was afraid of people not liking his product… there would be no iPhone.
 So ask yourself this! Do you wanna be a person who fears failure? Or do you wanna be a person who loves success? Which one? ’cause you’re gonna have to pick today...
AND I’LL TELL YOU ONE THING...
One is a Failure and One is a Success.
And if you love success there I nothing that can stop you! All those negative things people will mean nothing!
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